I am a fat woman and all the men that I've had sexual encounters with either didn't have any interest in fetishizing my weight or didn't want to ask. But, remember, the intensity is relative to YOU not anyone else. What kind of sexual interests do the females who love BHM have and how do they compare with the men? Sounds incredibly damaging and selfish Submitted by Vixx on September 23, - 9: You can try different positions which will have the most direct genital-to-genital contact.
Valeria. if you're looking for a more rounded, fulfilling encounter, or a 'girlfriend experience', rather than simply just sex, then i'm the woman for you. of course, i do adore sex and if that is all you desire than that's absolutely fine, but if you would also like to chat and laugh together or perhaps to flirt and converse over dinner and drinks, then i'd delight in being your companion. i honestly believe that sex is better for both people when there is a connection.
I will simply emphasize that squashing and other forms of physical domination of the smaller partner in no way constitutes a comprehensive understanding of the fetish.
Men: How a Fat Belly Can Mess Up Your Sex Life
DD Kelsey says Josh — Good question. Body image acceptance is about not freaking out if you can't lose that 20 pounds, being ok with a slightly crooked nose, long arms, skrawny legs or wide set hips. Men produce estrogen through a process that involves an enzyme called aromatase that transforms testosterone into estradiol. So it doesn't affect anyone else. This article is very interesting, but I can't say I'm not disappointed by it's lack of information on females who love fat men.